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    On November 14, 2010 at  9:14 PM 
  
  
    
How should deal with my relationship with Stefanie?
  
  
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    43 Decisiveness
  
  
    
      
      The Statement of the first hexagram
    
    
      Decisiveness. Proclaim in the royal court. 
Trust in the commands. Be stern. 
There will be severity. 
Announce to your own city. 
There is no gain in going to war. 
Gain by having a place to go.
    
   
  
    The changing lines
    
        
    The second line:
    Alert commands. Night after night 
of fighting without relief.  
  
    The fifth line:
    The amaranth mound decisively cleared: 
the middle way is without fault.  
     
   
 
    
  
  
 
  
   
  
    55 Plentiful
  
  
    The Statement of the second hexagram
  
  
   Plentiful. Progress. 
The great king arrives. Do not grieve. 
All is right as the midday sun.
  
   
 
     
    
        
    The Image of the first hexagram
  
  
    Lake rising to heaven: 
decisiveness. The noble one 
bestows wealth 
to those below 
and shuns dwelling 
on his own virtues.  
      
      
      
      
     
    
        
    The Image of the second hexagram
  
  
    Thunder and lightning 
come fully: plentiful. 
The wise one decides 
lawsuits and applies 
punishments.